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7 Ways to Jump Out of Addiction to Lifestyle Stereotypes, Shopping Fever & Constructed Life.

Why creating an ideal fake life on social sites makes you seem silly.

Posing for the last minute for tonight. Taking this picture by the cellphone in front of the bathroom door with a fruit mask on the face. You connect with your readers/ followers, friends, relatives, fans or haters and potential customers and so on in a way that’s current and interesting, as you like to think. Feel it as an ongoing iconic conversation where you can share updates about business, trends, news, and more. Really? Are you feeling comfortable at those moment?

“ Had you left any info remained to show of from your personal daily life? Do you feel your social accounts in a rule somehow like a diary? ”

You’ll be thinking loads of engaging content, so be sure to keep your opinion organized with force that also allows you to face my pure way of thiking without the judgement in my purpose. No, I am not here to name you as a restless guy. I am not the perfect social media user to teach you how to treat online behaviours.

The important I would like to mention is that I watch people like acting in a TV program in which some of them pretend in their life like following a scenery. Since social sites arrived in our life, things got strange for some of them.

Keeping yourself real is more interesting than pretending.

Expensive clothes and jewels or trendy bags, eccentric shoes, crazy colors on make up, maybe borrowed by other people, from stores, from people who keep an easy access to main places give chances to people to get amazing photos. Stunning photos then appear on social profiles after spent time on editing by the owners. The best pose wins the posting. Likes, red hearts, ticks and comments fire up under the succesful action and the person of the account feels like a king sitting on a golden throne located on a hight mountain, breathing among clouds filled by coolness.

The cellphone also needs to fill its battery. It's time also to take off the borrowed items. It's time to wear your own, maybe simple or old jumpsuit. Bought since 2 years but looking adorable and trendy. You don't feel bold enough to take a photo in this cloth though.

Why, though?

Just because you feel an addiction on new things.

Just because you need to mimic celebrities or you desire the feeling of touching a new fabric opening a new shopping bag.

Just because you feel your followers searching on previous posts to rub on your face that you wear again and again the same items. Like you did a crime. The worst crime in the fake world. Bizarre habits nowadays, my friend. Fake lives , fake moods and qualities.

You want to be an original among other human beings. More stylish, more beautiful, more sexy one. Smiles on poses show happiness. Resting all the day and enjoying at nights. With also stunning people, in ideal places, cozy beach bars, romantic coasts. Holding a colorful cocktail drink. Wearing a shinny ring on the finger. On a picture all will admire you.

And the show goes on.

Even after the photo, you have to make deals with friends about money you owe to them. Using hard words as you delayed to bring them those denim skirt and the flashy T-shirt you wanted to wear just for an afrernoon. Keeping your ego status lower than ever as the friend is maybe angry now and she is gonna comment under the photo that this skirt is hers and not yours. Hey boy, girl, woman, man this issue has to do with you all. It's a common story.

Wake up, my friend! Face your real moments and dare to love your real pictures. Life is not a competition for graphic or photo designers. Stores keep ideal items for everyone.

''There is not even one single brand which could add worth to your personality by itself. Image makes you happy, it changes your mood, but it should not slave your souls's value. It's a great way to appreciate art. Fashion should help you to enjoy life and not keeping you in a commercial marathon.''

Another thing to remember is this: If you always follow trends you stay behind the wow clapping. The serious point is to be a fashionable trend creator. Do you want me to reveal you a secret? There are ways to do it by your own.

  1. Create items by your own hands. Crazy or classic are upon your taste in fashion.

  2. Use authentic vintage items. Their unique style adds value to your image.

  3. Follow a style which advance your very own characteristics. Show your best version.

  4. Dare to style yourself. Be unique.

  5. Kick off the judgement of social sites users. Keep your identity.

  6. Feel like a star. Noone looks exactly like you.

  7. Being yourself is like being the most precious jewel.

Easy to feel it, easier to follow it. No more stressful feeling to face the daily hunting on images which seem like others's. This is not in fashion. It keeps you tied to inaction.

Try staying away of worthless things. It's time to rule your life on purposes and not on pixels.

Even you love the digital world you can check it seriously as a project to study on and not as a forced habit to spread your insecurity about fake situations.

You have nothing to approve to people who stand by you like arrows wet by poison, to hurt you behind a screen of a gadget.

Just live. In Life and not on posts.

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Your action:

  • Are you addicted to pictures in social sites or famous brands?

  • Do you need inspiration to create your very own styling?

  • Would you like to learn how to create your own stunning styling?


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